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How EMDR Therapy Works: Breaking Down the 8 Phases
EMDR therapy follows a structured eight-phase approach designed to help process distressing memories and emotional patterns. From building coping strategies to installing new, adaptive beliefs, each phase plays a crucial role in healing. Learn how EMDR works and what to expect in each stage.

How EMDR Therapy Can Be Tailored to Your Needs
EMDR is a flexible therapy that can be adapted to meet your needs. Not everyone processes distress in the same way, so we adjust the intensity and approach to ensure you feel safe and supported. Think of EMDR as existing on a continuum, where we can adjust the "power level" based on what feels right for you.

Being kind to yourself - Practicing self compassion
Being kind to ourselves doesn't always come naturally. Our brains are wired to focus on threats and mistakes, often leading to harsh self-criticism. However, embracing self-compassion—treating ourselves with the same kindness we offer to friends—can transform our mental well-being.
In this article we look at three practical ways to start practicing a little kindness. Even small shifts, like accepting compliments or acknowledging our feelings, can make a significant difference. Discover how tiny changes can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life.

Managing Anxiety Through Sensory Regulation: Tiny is Mighty in Balancing Your Nervous System
In this blog post, I explore the powerful role sensory regulation plays in managing anxiety, using the concept of polyvagal theory to explain how sensory experiences can help regulate the nervous system. I emphasize the "tiny is mighty" approach, where small, consistent actions can shift our nervous system from a state of dysregulation (fight, flight, or freeze) to one of safety and connection. Polyvagal theory highlights how engaging with certain sensory inputs can activate the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting calm and emotional balance. I break down how each sense—sight, sound, movement, smell, touch, and more—can be used to reduce anxiety and help create a personalized toolkit for emotional regulation. By tuning into your own sensory preferences, you can implement these small but effective strategies to manage anxiety and restore a sense of calm, one step at a time.
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